I did a thing a few months ago. A thing that I’ve wanted to do for years. A
thing that had me a little nervous and scared too, but a thing that also made
me feel empowered and confident.
I’m not sure why I waited until I was in my
late 50s, but I’m glad I did. This thing
came at a perfect time of re-evaluation, growth and change in my life. I had to let go of all those worrisome
thoughts about what my friends and family may think. I did this for me, and my
husband 😊, but mostly for me. In midlife, we are allowed to be sexy. There is no rule book that says otherwise and
whose opinions matter anyway? Mine! So, what better time than now? This midlife
journey is on my terms and I’m going to own it.
This thing was actually a
lot of fun. I got to wear some beautiful
lingerie that was provided. Plus, I bought some new things of my own, which I
haven’t done in many years. At this point, you’ve probably figured out what the
thing is I did.
Yes, a boudoir photo
session! The setting was a glamorous, sexy apartment in a downtown high-rise.
Romantic furniture and alluring props of fur throws, elegant pillows and satin
sheets. I was pampered by a professional
stylist who did my hair and makeup. My
photographer, Alyssa, with Captured by Belinda Boudoir, was such a professional and
made me feel so comfortable and relaxed.
I didn’t have to worry about looking awkward, as she was a pro. Alyssa
posed me in ways that were flattering, without turning me into someone I’m not,
while enhancing the woman already in me. It doesn’t matter if you’re big or small,
short or tall... Every body is a beautiful body, and the photographer’s goal is
to bring that out and make you shine.
So, if this is something
that is on your bucket list or something that you’ve thought about at some
point in your life but gave up on the idea… I’m here to say maybe you should
consider booking that session and embracing your midlife. Celebrate and capture this beautiful time of
your life! I did this back in April and
I’m still giddy about the experience. And
who knows? Maybe I’ll do it again in when I’m in my late 60s and 70s.
I found that all the things
I imagined about myself were actually already there, and not just in my
imagination. I just needed someone to help me see them. This experience led me
to a newfound confidence and validation that I am exactly who I always wished I
could be.
Love this <3
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